datedatedate!!!

I told JK that I would end all of my post titles with exclamation points, so here we go! Haha... so I was totally freaking out about whether or not TOJ likes me and having a girlish panic attack. JK set me straight, and I quote, "No, you are just freaking out. He's already planned several dates in the future and is cooking you a meal and buying hardware to please you sexually. I'd say he is into it." I started feeling a little bit better, but I still wanted to kick it up a notch, so I bought some ridiculously sexy lingerie from the pinup store in Upper Haight. Cute bra, garter and thigh highs in pale pink and black. I wore a really sexy wrap sweater dress, brought some wine and chocolate, and headed over.


So... his house is amazing! I can understand why he wouldn't want to leave, even though he has two roommates. It was baller. They have an amazing stereo system - I can't even describe it. I know that he works in audio design, but it was just so nice. He had a million of those iPod stereo docks in nearly every room of the house in addition to the ridiculous stereo system in the living room. There were all these bathrooms and a beautiful dining room with an amazing kitchen and lovely furniture. The kitchen had all these high-tech gadgets and then they have a deck and a backyard. They have an attic with a bedroom upstairs. I was in awe! 


Dinner was delicious. He grilled me a steak (oh yeah, they have a full grill outside, too!) and then made gumbo and showed me how to eat it Cajun style. He made greens (god, I love greens. White boys who like greens = win) and these amazing beans and rice. We had the wine I had brought and sat down and talked for a while. He really liked my outfit and the food was so delicious. We had a lot to talk about, including the fact that we've met each other's exes! He knows TG's crew, which was weird. After dinner, I asked him if he wanted me to do the dishes and he wouldn't let me. He showed me the upstairs part of the house and then we went to his bedroom, which was immaculate. Seriously. He really is a man and not a boy. Everything was tastefully decorated and he even had a robe out for me, in case I got cold at night.


We had a very pleasant night =) He liked the lingerie a lot! We went to bed a little later than I wanted to. He likes to make fun of how early I go to bed and wake up, but his bed was so comfy and I slept so well. I woke up early this morning and we cuddled a little bit and then I called a car to leave. I texted him to thank him this morning (and to apologize for biting him and leaving a mark - I get super aggressive when I'm excited). He told me he's looking forward to our Saturday date, as well, and that I laugh in my sleep, which he finds endearing. I guess it's better than snoring! So far, so good. ::fingers crossed:: that this continues.