The rest of my team has gone shopping while I work on some things, so I'm going to take a little break and update on the state of my dating life. I went on Date 2 with Jersey Boy (new nickname alert!). It was fun - we had dinner in the Inner Richmond, then went back to his place so I could nap and sleep. I truly do love the fact that I nap on dates fairly frequently. I wonder what men who date me think. He was pretty sweet about me needing a 20 min catnap before I could do anything remotely strenuous.
Of course, we had sex because I mean, it wasn't like there was any way that wasn't going to happen. It was good. Better than the first time. He does all the things I like and does them well. I think I may be too much for him sexually - haha. I think he thinks I'm sex crazed because I basically want to go all the time. He also told me I was a lot stronger than I look and that I'm an "Amazon" - lol. I was embarrassed, but it's nothing I haven't heard before and I don't think he thinks it's a bad thing. I'm definitely not some dainty flower. Some of the men I've dated must've had really dull girlfriends, because I get a lot of comments like that.
One thing that did give me pause was that he asked if I was still active on OKCupid and how many guys I was dating. I gave a very vague answer on the first question and I told him "15" and laughed for the second one. I wonder if that put him off. He was still really affectionate towards me - kissing my forehead, cuddling, massaging my shoulders. It was really nice. He's been less chatty with me over text, so I don't know if he's busy or if I shouldn't have been an asshole about the "how many people are you dating" questions. I don't know. We'll see.
I'm still on the fence about if I like him or not. I thought second date was really good and we still get along. I just never know what I want and I second guess everything. Maybe that means it's not meant to be, but I also know that I always make poor initial decisions. I love to just judge people right off the bat and not give them chances. Let's just say - I wouldn't be friends with like 50% of the people I know now because I formed some mistaken opinion of them from Day 1. Life Coach says I have time and I don't have to rush it, so I'm going to listen to her. I still want to go out with him and kind of take it day by day. That's the plan!